[18+] FwB và ONS – Cuộc chơi dành cho các dân tổ (P1)

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Having had many years of experience in the areas of Voz, Haivl, Thien Dia Hoi… from the early days, when FB became popular, I switched to a few closed groups to practice swordsmanship… so I also have a little experience to share. share with aunts. Today’s topic is to analyze the pros and cons of the two types of love, FwB and ONS, and at the same time provide some secret tips for women who, despite claiming to be naive and innocent, still want to throw themselves into the game of love. for the ancestors. :>

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Note 1: The meaning of the two words FwB and ONS will be explained below in detail ^^.

Note 2: The photo is not very hot, there are no pigtails, potatoes or sweet potatoes, feel free to surf in front of parents :<

1. A few words to avoid sexual arousal

“Life is unfair so hair is never straight“, I’m sure you all know this cruel rule. I’ll say it, I’m not an ethicist or your civics teacher, don’t expect me to say something like, “You guys should worry about studying and working, then find a suitable, pretty, handsome person to stick with for the rest of your life..”

No, life is not that simple and magical. =)). Snow White was poisoned by the witch and killed her many times before she met the prince, let alone those with low statuses like ours. :3

One more 18+ article won’t make the world more depraved, and it certainly won’t purify anyone’s soul :>, however, knowledge has a terrible power to change, and I always want to bring more A different perspective for everyone to share and analyze for everyone.

Just because I don’t say it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist, we’re all grown up, the more we try to deny something, the more we crave and want to approach it – that’s the unwritten rule in this impermanent life ^ ^. Therefore, instead of hiding and clumsily covering up, why don’t we openly discuss and give our opinions here? As always, I give my opinion, you guys discuss – dissect – even criticize if you see me exaggerating too much =)).

The decision to join this game or not, how far the limits should go – whether to play until you’re exhausted or to change your mind, is entirely up to you. However, to venture into a territory like FwB/ONS and come out intact, requires not only a careless – arrogant attitude, but also a lot of bravery, reason and especially the right skills. You must understand and follow the rules of the game absolutely!

It sounds fun and really exciting, but if you’re not careful, you’ll get bogged down again, ladies! There’s nothing more bitter than falling into this quagmire, believe me. :3

2. Do you want to go far or do you want to go fast?

FwB (short for Friends with Benefits) – Gypsy or simply called fuck buddy. And ONS (One night stand) is a one-night stand. It sounds simple, but many people still misunderstand or deliberately distort the concept of bme -_-. If you’re not sure, you can watch No strings attached or Friends with Benefits. The actors in both movies are so beautiful, there are many hot scenes that make fragile hearts want to bleed :’>

One-night stands (ONS) have few strings attached and anyone can walk out of this type of relationship without any major trouble. Simply meet once, then go to bed, then go your separate ways, sometimes even not knowing their names. But FwB is much more complicated, this type of love also causes much more terrible consequences. Many aunts do not follow the rules of the game, let their emotions dominate, or are simply selfish, demanding too much from their partners, leading to FwB endings that are not very clean and neat. The scope of this article will focus mainly on FwB.

If you ask any nightingale in Spiderum, she will probably clearly answer the basic definition of these two forms. However, are you sure? Are you confident that you can ALWAYS distinguish FwB from 100%?

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There are basically 4 types of emotional relationships, ranked in increasing order of attachment and intimacy as below. Note, although slightly different, all 4 include acts of affection, stimulation, and provocation related to sex. Sex is still the basic core of all four types of love. Of course, I don’t dare consider love relationships without sex, because to me it sounds so sublime and so confusing ^^.

– The laziest and least binding is One night stand (ONS) – a legendary one-night stand, this is also the secret dream of many aunts but they don’t dare admit it :>. Ra Ta Hien swiped Tinder (dating application) and matched with a pretty girl, chatted a few lines, and immediately opened the motel address. Finished! The orgy can only last for a few hours or all night depending on the strength of the aunts, but the outcome is still that they never meet or contact again after that. Everything is simply a flood, based on the principle of sex and only sex.

– A little better is called Booty Call (BC). You probably rarely hear this type, but it’s very popular abroad. These are usually acquaintances, just acquaintances but not close friends, but you know for sure that just by calling/messaging/inboxing, people will be ready to open up to you. In my opinion, George Clooney’s character in Up in the air is a typical BC.

In the past, when social networks were not yet developed, it was called Booty call, but now BC is not limited to any form of contact (email, Facebook, even handwritten letters if you like =)) ). This type of relationship can be maintained for a long time, with no time or distance limits depending on the interest of both parties. There are BC termites that can last for years. The biggest difference between BC and ONS one-night stands is that both sides already know each other. Colleague, sister’s friend, neighbor, boss, etc. are typical examples.

Angel Eva Green is very horny!

– The most brain hack, more complicated than normal love is Friends with benefits (FwB). Being half man, half guy can easily cause frustration, ladies. I will explain in detail later why. FwB is exactly what the name suggests – friends with shared interests. The benefits here are widely understood by many people, some people just want to have friends to travel with, to chat for sex, or simply to confide in, have coffee when needed, and have no sexual needs.

However, to me, the types of friends that don’t involve sex are just regular friends, that’s all! Naming FwB definitely has a sexual connotation. Swapping concepts sounds so tiring! ._. FwB is different from Booty Call in that two people still maintain friendships, even close friends, and at the same time satisfy each other’s sexual needs.

FwB is becoming more and more popular, our young people are also extremely excited, sometimes the info is just “finding fwb”, ava has a cool – careless – cool combo. But the more careless the aunts themselves are, the easier it is to taste the bitter fruit of playing FwB. The reason will become clear later.

– The last type is comradeship, oh yes, love. What love is, what kind of onion it is, how it makes you miserable, everyone probably knows for themselves, I won’t talk nonsense anymore. :))

Above are 4 common types of sexual relationships, what stage are you in?

3. If I already like roses, what does the beautiful garden have to do with it?

Why do you go to ONS and FWB when you’re full and fat? ONS vs FWB reflects the debauched, hedonistic lifestyle of modern people? These people don’t like to be tied down, are irresponsible towards themselves and their partners?

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To curse and criticize those who seek these two types of relationships, you don’t need to be Cam Lan Suc to do it all, right? I admit that the slanderous words above contain more or less the truth, but those of you who read my article already know that, let’s look at things from a different perspective, not defending, not really slandering, simple. just an observer.

Sometimes we differ in our life goals and the priorities we set for ourselves. There are aunts who spend their entire youth loving and loving only one person, then are lucky enough to pick up a bowl of them and become one family member. My friend is typical like that, his first and last love, very fulfilling and happy.

At the opposite extreme, many aunts like to indulge themselves in short-term fun, change partners like changing clothes, “young people don’t play when old people lose their manners” – their motto is simple and “cool” that’s all. :> Looking to ONS and FwB is a way to add interesting colors to their fast-paced, adventurous lives.

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There are people in the world who like black and white and simple, of course there are also people who like hot, fiery, intense tones. In general, it’s just a matter of taste, why do we have to drag each other out to make fun of each other ^^?

4. Walk in arrogant, walk out defeated

No matter what you say, you can’t deny the formidable magic of one-night stands and especially FwB. Aunts can criticize and blame, but don’t those who participate in this type of love game often have a more colorful and interesting life? Of course, how interesting it is still depends on the judge’s taste, and the consequences that these types of unstable, short-lived, meaty relationships often bring often make the sufferer bitter and bitter to swallow. horribly spicy!

Many aunts initially had very liberal and confident views, but when they fell in love and were beaten to a pulp by wormwood, they couldn’t stand up. The end result is often that you can’t find a way out, forever imprisoning yourself in a relationship that’s half lean, half fat – neither a lover nor a friendship, you can’t be jealous, and you can’t let go.

That’s understandable, before entering the game, “players” often have a comfortable mindset, like “friends have known each other for a long time, a little more sex will be more fun, there shouldn’t be any problem”, or “when If you don’t like it, both of you stop and continue being friends as before.” How naive and pitiful!

ONS is inherently light-hearted, no strings attached, no commitments. Satisfying each other is enough, the next morning we can walk away, as strangers passing through our lives. True to No face, no name, no number. But FwB is different, aunts engage in a sexual relationship with their own friends, even close friends are not rare, with the naive dream of still maintaining true friendship, but When you have free time, you still play your “side leg” enthusiastically? Isn’t that belief too unreasonable and against the laws of nature?

5. Sin number 1 of 7 human sins

“Don’t care about the past, don’t care about the future, just enjoy the present moment” is the maxim of the FwB world that is still passed down to generations today. But the problem is that FwB includes two parts: friendship and sex. The sexual part is the added value, the most important and complex supporting part, and is also the part that easily leads women astray, falling into misconceptions and misunderstandings about something that is not yet love, but is painful. annoying etc.

Among the 7 deadly sins, Pride is the first sin and is said to be the origin of the remaining sins. Because of arrogance, aunts often set expectations too high, and expect their partner – or other friend – to meet them. Expect that if things don’t work out, you can still be friends. Expect people to love, care for, and pamper you in bed like a lover, but in addition, still maintain the bond of friendship to avoid straying too far from shore. Expect that both of you will know when to stop and will use reason to maintain the relationship? So aren’t you guys too confident and greedy?

Humans are inherently a selfish and demanding species. If they get 1, they will want 3. They will never stop and satisfy themselves at a safe level. It’s the same in FwB relationships, aunties always want to push things a little further, there’s no such thing as “trying it for fun”. The joy here is always associated with benefits, here the biggest benefit is sex, being hugged, caressed, having the rapid breathing of a partner who understands his ego, being comforted. without having to worry about holding on, because a friend is different from a lover, they are always there safely within your reach.

Not respecting the rules of the game, always looking for ways to challenge and break the established rules, and being influenced and overwhelmed by emotions are the source of most current FwB tragedies. It’s even more painful when many aunts become FwB with their own close friends, the result is loss of sex, and close friends also break up.

For many reasons, both subjective and objective, a small number of women have gone through FwB and have not achieved the expected results. Most people will then go deeper and deeper into ignorance, with many signs of behavioral and emotional disorders.

Why do aunties seek FwB relationships? Is there any secret to maintaining a healthy, long-term sexual friendship? When should we be brave enough to stop? Can I upgrade FwB to love? How to keep the FwB fire lasting?

These questions will be answered in part 2. I ran out of blood and had to go to the pump to recover ^^, please give your opinions and share practical experiences.

Real people, real things – be strong, brothers and sisters! :>

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